This has not been a good week in pregnancy land. I was just diagnosed with gestational diabetes – Scary Stuff!
The fact is, I wasn’t supposed to get a gestational diabetes diagnosis – I’m one of the healthy ones:
- I eat mostly healthy foods
- I’ve only gained 13-15 pounds since getting pregnant.
- I have been exercising fairly consistently and have felt pretty decent, particularly in the last couple of weeks.
I’ve had my pregnancy moments, but overall have been able to maintain my previous energy levels and felt like I was doing pretty good for 29 weeks.
Hearing I had gestational diabetes was a huge shock.
I’ve got a brother who is Type I Diabetic, so I have a good idea of how scary diabetes can be. I’ve watched him have a diabetic low in the middle of a caving trip and at the onset of a canyoneering route. Watching him crash was really terrifying, particularly since both times we were in the middle of nowhere.
Diabetes isn’t something that you mess around with.
It is crazy how life always seems to throw up roadblocks, just when you start to think that everything is going well.
I’ve been trying not to stress about the whole thing, but until I’m able to meet with the dietician and start working out a plan it is hard not to think about worst-case scenarios.
For me, this stress always translates into sleeping issues, which obviously makes the whole cycle worse.
I smile and act like everything is okay, but inside I’m constantly questioning myself and second-guessing every decision I’m making. I can’t help but wonder if it is my fault I got gestational diabetes.
Yesterday morning I got home from the grocery store and like the hormonal pregnant women, I am started tearing up when telling Aaron about my hunt for low carb, high protein food.
I felt paralyzed with fear that I would eat the wrong thing and potentially hurt my baby.
I knew I was being irrational, but uncertainty and the fear that comes with the unknown makes me behave in slightly irrational ways at times.
Letting myself be ruled by fear and anxiety isn’t something I can allow in my life right now.
I know that a lot of my questions will be answered later this week by the dietician, but in the meantime, I spent a lot of time on the internet.
Gestational Diabetes facts that have helped calm my fears:
- Gestational Diabetes isn’t about how “healthy” you are, it is about the placenta’s reaction to insulin. I could have been eating perfect and still would have gotten gestational diabetes. It isn’t my fault I have Gestational Diabetes and it isn’t your fault either!
- Gestational Diabetes isn’t a life sentence. Yes, some women do end up developing diabetes later and I’ve got a higher chance of getting it later. However, I know now I’m prone to diabetes which means I can prepare and hopefully prevent by incorporating the new healthy eating skills I’m learning.
- Exercise is one of the best things I can do for my body right now. Being active really, really helps with gestational diabetes. I like to stay active, so this just gives me one more reason to get out of bed.
- Diabetes isn’t about cutting out all carbs, it is about decreasing carbs and pairing them with protein. It is about eating lots and lot of veggies. I can do healthy eating.
- **Check out my one-year anniversary post – Healthy Eating Habits: How Gestational Diabetes Changed My Diet.
- If I control my sugar levels, my baby won’t even know she was in danger.
- Lack of sugar level control can be a serious issue and lead to high birth weights (not my idea of a good time) and potential sugar issues for the baby.
- Most women, can control their gestational diabetes naturally through diet and exercise.
So at this point, I’ve calmed down a little bit. I’m still nervous and scared for my baby, but I don’t have the same sense of crushing fear that came with the initial diagnosis.
I’m not looking forward to some of the eating changes I’ll need to make – I really like chocolate, but overall I’ve always eaten fairly healthy, so I’m hoping a few small adjustments will be sufficient to keep my blood sugar level intact.
Related Post: How to Control Gestational Diabetes During Pregnancy Naturally – Please read this post if you have Gestational Diabetes!
PS. If you are looking for a great book on Gestational Diabetes you may want to check out – Real Food for Gestational Diabetes: An Effective Alternative to the Conventional Nutrition Approach by Lily Nichols.
I’m now 9 months post baby and gestational diabetes wasn’t the horrible monster I thought originally. Because of my experience with diabetes, I’ve revamped my eating habits completely.
I thought I was healthy before, but now know that I was very deficient in protein. I loved my carbs just a bit too much!
Because of my gestational diabetes, I ate healthier, exercised more and listened to my body during my pregnancy. Although it was a hassle at times to eat the balanced meals, I personally feel that it was a blessing in disguise.
One of the best things I did was go on a modified Paleo Diet. I was really struggling to find ways of incorporating protein into my diet. I really struggled with this aspect of the plan.
After reading this post I had a reader reach out to me and share the Paleo Diet Meal Plan Program. After doing a bit of research I can see why she liked the program so much. The Paleo Diet is high in protein and the meal plans are geared specifically to increased protein consumption.
Obviously, you need to make sure you are getting your carbs, but the Paleo Meal Plans are an inexpensive way to start. I wish I had known about them when I was struggling with Gestational Diabetes.
Finding new and fun meals was the worst part of Gestational Diabetes in my opinion – much worse than those stupid needle sticks.
Oh well, hopefully, this tip will help some of you guys!
I know that most of you reading this post are stressed to the max, you are scared for your baby and worried about how you will handle your new diet. I want to offer you my encouragement and love.
You can do this!
Listen to your doctors, do your research, find alternative foods that will help you manage your sugar levels, exercise and stay active. I did a lot of walking and yoga and believe that both really helped with my sugar levels.
I did a couple different Yoga videos but liked Yoga Pregnancy best. It was pretty simple in the beginning, but by the last 2 months was right about my speed.
If you are looking for gestational diabetes support, I highly recommend joining a couple of facebook groups. Just be aware that there is a lot of misinformation shared online.
More than anything don’t give into depression or anger.
This isn’t your fault, sometimes our bodies just respond differently to pregnancy. I found that doing yoga really helped relax me and kept me from feeling sorry for myself.
Trust me when I say that all of the sacrifices will be worth it when you hold your little baby in your arms. You can do this!
Editors note: I created my own Gestational Diabetes Sugar Tracking Forms (I didn’t like the one my doctor supplied). I sell them on Etsy for a few bucks, but if you are tight on money and want one drop me an email and I’ll send a free one to you.
PS. Before having your baby check out my post on The Most Important Step to Sleep Training Your Baby – Trust me, you want to read this one.
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